A Christmas story about love, loss and some caring support from the Garden Grove PD

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The little girl ripped open an early Christmas present — one of several courtesy of the Garden Grove Police Department.

A baby doll.

“Now I have tons of babies!” Emily Barragan, 5, squealed in delight.

It was Dec. 23, and Emily was surrounded by her family, including brothers Matthew, 3, and Gabriel, almost 3 weeks old, at a relative’s home in Garden Grove.

In a season of giving for law enforcement, when police agencies in Orange County and around the country deliver gifts to needy members of the community, the visit Wednesday to the Barragan family was extra special.

Xxxx. Photo courtesy of Luis Barragan

In this July 2015 photo, Erika Barragan beams with her son Matthew, 3. Photo courtesy of Luis Barragan

That’s because in the living room bursting with presents and love, someone was missing.

Erika Barragan couldn’t be there to watch the smiles on her children’s faces and see the joy in their eyes as they got lost in a happy world of toys and gadgets and stuffed animals — a fun and wondrous and magical place where sad things never happen.

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For Erika Barragan, the most precious gift of all arrived Dec. 4 — her son, Gabriel.

It was her third child with husband Luis, whom she met at work in 2007. The two instantly clicked, fell in love and soon married.

At the time, both were working at the Target on Harbor Boulevard at Chapman Avenue in Garden Grove —- she as a logistics specialist in the warehouse, he as a salesperson in the electronics section.

The Barragan family with Garden Grove PD Officer Mitchel Mosser, including Luis Barragan holding his 3-week-old son Gabriel Barragan, and his two kids in front of him Matthew Barragan, 3, and Emily Barragan, 5. The kids mom, Erika, passed away three weeks ago the day after giving birth to Gabriel. Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Members of the Barragan family with Garden Grove PD Officer Mitchel Mosser, including Luis Barragan holding his 3-week-old son, Gabriel, and his other two children: Matthew Barragan, 3, and Emily Barragan, 5. Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Luis would go on to work as a sales and IT specialist at Eide Industries, a company in Cerritos that makes outdoor shade structures.

Erika would remain at Target, she and her husband juggling their schedules to raise their young family — hardworking parents just doing their best to provide for their kids.

The Barragans were living with Erika’s parents in Anaheim when Gabriel was born.

Erika looked radiant and felt great as she doted on Gabriel from her hospital bed.

Luis was overjoyed to have a second son.

Emily Barragan, 5, looks over the shoulder of her brother Matthew Barragan, 3, after he unwrapped a Christmas present from the Garden Grove PD for his 3-week-old brother Gabriel. Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Emily Barragan, 5, looks over the shoulder of her brother Matthew Barragan, 3, after he unwrapped a Christmas present from the Garden Grove PD for his 3-week-old brother, Gabriel.
Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Emily and Matthew couldn’t wait for their baby brother to come home.

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A couple days after being discharged from the hospital, Erika began feeling faint.

She felt nauseous and had trouble breathing.

Luis drove her to the ER at St. Joseph Hospital in Orange.

As doctors started running tests and ordering lab work, Erika suddenly flatlined.

For 30 minutes, doctors performed CPR.

Matthew Barragan, 3, gets to flip the switch for the siren in the patrol car of Garden Grove PD Officer Mitchel Mosser. Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Matthew Barragan, 3, gets to flip the switch for the siren in the patrol car of Garden Grove PD Officer Mitchel Mosser.
Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

They got a pulse, but Erika couldn’t breathe on her own.

Late Tuesday night, Dec. 8, Erika’s organs began shutting down, including her heart.

She was losing a lot of blood.

Despite several blood transfusions and other medical procedures, doctors told Luis that there was no hope — that they had done all they could to save Erika.

Erika was taken off life support a little after midnight and died Wednesday, Dec. 9.

She was 41.

Emily Barragan, 5, and her brother Matthew Barragan, 3, unwrap Christmas presents (including the big Teddy bear behind them) from the Garden Grove PD. Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Emily Barragan, 5, and her brother Matthew Barragan, 3, unwrap Christmas presents (including the big Teddy bear behind them) from the Garden Grove PD.
Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

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“Look in my backpack!” Matthew told a visitor. “I fight bad guys!”

The 3-year-old is a huge Batman fan.

He also loves police officers.

So when the two Garden Grove officers rolled up to the house early in the afternoon on Dec. 23, Matthew was in heaven.

The boy hopped into a patrol car as officers showed him the gadgets and flipped on the lights.

Emily was too shy to get inside the police car.

Garden Grove PD Officer Mitchel Mosser with 3-week-old Gabriel Barragan, Emily Barragan, 5, and Matthew Barragan, 3. Garden Grove officers brought the Barragan family Christmas presents (including the big Teddy bear, left) after their mother, Erika, passed away the day after giving birth to Gabriel. Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Garden Grove PD Officer Mitchel Mosser with 3-week-old Gabriel Barragan, Emily Barragan, 5, and Matthew Barragan, 3. 
Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Soon, both Matthew and Emily were consumed in their new toys as relatives watched them in the living room of Patty Barragan’s home.

Patty Barragan, who works the front desk at a medical clinic in Newport Beach, has taken an unpaid leave of absence to care for Gabriel until Luis Barragan figures out what to do next.

“Newborns still need a mommy,” said Patty Barragan, Luis’ mom, as she cradled Gabriel.

Luis has taken time off work following his wife’s death. He was planning to return Jan. 4, but there’s another layer to this tragedy: Erika’s mother, Ana, has terminal cancer. Now he’s not sure what he will do.

For now, it’s an hour-to-hour thing for him.

Three-year-old Matthew Barragan looks up at the Garden Grove PD officers after unwrapping a toy police car given to him by the GGPD. His sister, Emily Barragan, 5, is behind him also unwrapping Christmas presents. Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Three-year-old Matthew Barragan looks up at the Garden Grove PD officers after unwrapping a toy police car.
Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

“I’m a mess,” Luis said Wednesday. “But they (his children) are the reason I get up every day. And without (the GPPD), there would be no gifts under the Christmas tree this year.”

Luis said Target, his employer and neighbors and friends have shown overwhelming support following the death of his wife.

Another aunt, Rosie Santana, set up a GoFundMe page (gofundme.com/barraganfamilyfund) that so far has raised $18,305.

Most of that money, however, was used for Erika’s funeral and burial.

“The family now needs a safety net,” Santana said.

Emily Barragan, 5, gets a close look at her 3-week-old brother Gabriel Barragan as he is held by Garden Grove PD Officer Mitchel Mosser. Garden Grove officers brought the Barragan family Christmas presents after their mother, Erika, passed away the day after giving birth to Gabriel. Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Emily Barragan, 5, gets a close look at her 3-week-old brother Gabriel Barragan as he is held by Garden Grove PD Officer Mitchel Mosser.
Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

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Erika died unexpectedly from an amniotic fluid embolism, relatives said. That rare condition occurs when fetal material enters the mother’s bloodstream.

The GGPD caught wind of what happened and decided to help the Barragan family out in any way it could, said Cindy Nagamatsu Hanlon, manager of the Garden Grove PD’s Community Liaison Division.

Officer Mitch Mosser and his patrol partner, who asked to remain anonymous, delivered the gifts Wednesday.

Mosser doted on the kids, and loved holding Gabriel.

“The Garden Grove PD does what it can to come together for the community,” Mosser said. “It’s an honor and a privilege, and we’re the ones who appreciate them.”

Rosie Santana holds 3-week-old Gabriel Barragan, the son of her nephew Luis Barragan. Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Rosie Santana holds 3-week-old Gabriel Barragan, the son of her nephew Luis Barragan.
Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

The Barragan family still is dealing with the shock of losing Erika.

Her memorial service was Dec. 18.

A couple of days after she died, Emily asked her father a question.

“Where’s mommy?”

Luis, 27, did his best to tell his 5-year-old what happened.

“Mommy got sick, and now she’s in heaven,” he said.

Emily had another question for her father.

Emily Barragan, 5, unwraps Christmas presents given to her and her two brothers by the Garden Grove PD. Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Emily Barragan, 5, unwraps Christmas presents given to her and her two brothers by the Garden Grove PD.
Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

“But daddy,” she asked. “How is one parent going to take care of three kids?”

Luis thought for a second.

“I will try my hardest,” he told his daughter, “but I have a lot of people helping me.”

Wednesday, the focus was on Christmas – all the presents and the excitement stirred up by the visiting GGPD cops.

“Another snowball!” Emily said excitedly. “Now I have two!”

Matthew became fixated on a toy tool set and used a fake drill on just about everything in the room.

Emily then quietly retreated to a couch.

There, she cradled her new doll in her tiny arms and raised the bottle to her mouth.

A little girl playing mommy.

Emily Barragan, 5, feeds her new doll she named Aerial that was given to her as a Christmas present from Garden Grove PD officers after her mother, Erika, passed away three weeks ago. Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC

Emily Barragan, 5, feeds her new doll she named Aerial that was given to her as a Christmas present from Garden Grove PD officers.
Photo by Steven Georges/Behind the Badge OC